Dating and rideshares About 1 minuteSkill: Respecting hesitationBuild confidence
The 'come upstairs for one minute' invitation
Someone you know casually wants you to enter a private space. You don't want to seem unfriendly.
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The setup
Someone you know casually — a date, an acquaintance, a friend of a friend — says come up for just a minute. One drink, one coffee, one thing they need to grab. You're not sure. You don't want to seem cold or untrusting. The door to their place is right there.
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