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The explanation trap

You want to leave, and your mouth is already building a case. The more you explain, the more they have follow-up questions.

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The setup

A stranger at a bus stop, a chatty salesperson, a neighbour who corners you — you want to leave, and your mouth is already building a case: why you have to go, where you're headed, how busy you are. The more you explain, the more they seem to have follow-up questions.

What changed?

Awkward is cheaper than unsafe.