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Dating and rideshares About 1 minuteSkill: Setting meeting conditionsBuild confidence

The online connection wants to meet now

Someone you met online wants to meet tonight, pick the spot, skip the public daytime plan.

Step 1 · Your next move

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The setup

Someone you met online wants to meet tonight, wants to pick the spot, says public places are awkward, pushes back on your plan for a daytime coffee. You haven't met. You don't know them. The pressure to skip the boring safety steps is framed as spontaneity.

What changed?

Awkward is cheaper than unsafe.